Fall in love with a man who loves you more because he will love everything you hate about yourself, every single flaw, even the tiniest of them. He is the man who will be able to look past your flaws and accept you for who you are. He will be the only one who can put up with your pettiness, your short-tempers, your mood swings and also how unreasonable you can be when you are frustrated.
Never fall for a man because of his impeccable looks; the process of ageing is inevitable. Instead, fall for a man with a good character because beauty will fade, but not goodness.
"Beauty is only skin-deep".
Fall carelessly, fall deeply.
Make plans for the future and believe that he is the "Mr.Right" that you've been searching for all along.
Become involved with his family, as well as him in yours. Love his family, build bridges; learn to be a part of his life. The man who loves you more will always fight to be in your life even if his family or yours disapproves. He will do all he can to make them see the good in you. He will constantly try to appease your parents, to gain their trust and to give them a sense of security whenever you're with him.
The man who loves you more will be kind to your mother despite her disapproving looks and he isn't afraid of your father but rather treats him with respect. The man who loves you more will treat your siblings as his own, he will never find them annoying and he will be the one who picks them up from school just because.
The man who loves you more will love your family as much as you love them.
The man who loves you more will always make time for you, and make you a priority in his life.
He will be the kind of man who will try his very best to satisfy your cravings for desserts even if it's in the wee hours of the morning, simply because he loves you. He will be the man who catches you when you fall, holds you when you're on the verge of falling apart, and loves every broken piece in you.
The man who loves you will give you your space to grow, to discover yourself with an open heart and an open mind. He will be patient, he will be tolerant, and he will be supportive in every step of the way. He will never be the one who sets boundaries or puts up barriers around you. He will never be the one holding you down.
The man who loves you will never leave when things go wrong. He will be the man who sticks with you through thick and thin. He never yells and he never lets you go to bed mad. He will be the one who holds everything together when it starts to fall apart; he will be the foundation of this love you have found. He never gives up.
The man who loves you more will love you unconditionally, no strings attached. He will love you even when you're at your worst. He will find you beautiful no matter what you wear or how you did your make up. He will laugh with you, and he will also hold your hand when things go bad.
Time passes, and as you continue growing with the man who loves you more, remind yourself that he is the perfect man for you. Never fall into the trap of letting yourself be convinced that you are 'bored' because no one will treat you better than the man who loves you more.
This man, the man who loves you more, will be willing to sacrifice just about anything for you. Hence, the following advice is crucial.
Never take advantage of the love that he has entrusted you with, because this love is rare, and is one that should be treated with the utmost care and love, the kind that this man has provided you with. Never be selfish, never be calculative, never dismiss his love for you as clinginess or attention seeking; Treasure every moment as though it is your last, love furiously, love fearlessly.
One day, the fights will not be as heated, as fuelled and as passionate as when the both of you started out. The butterflies in your stomach will eventually fade, the way your heart skips a beat whenever you see him will also disappear. This does not mean that you do not love him, or that you love him less. Do not take this passion that you both once had as the indication of the strength of the love you both have, because passion is something that will fade away, passion is not forever.
All this simply means is that the both of you have gone past the stage of infatuation, and that your relationship with him has now transcended into a deeper form of love and that you are entirely comfortable around him.
Gone are the days when you had to hold your fart because you were embarrassed, or tried to ignore each other's burps and pretend they never happened, or when you had to act all prim and proper to make sure that you didn't scare him off. You no longer feel the need to act like someone else in front of him, you no longer have to suppress your true identity and the mask you once used to wear has now fallen off.
When the man who loves you more asks for your hand in marriage, take the opportunity without any hesitation because no one will love you better than he does. No one will understand you better than he does; no one will tolerate your short-temperedness or emotional mood swings better than he does.
Build a beautiful family with this man, raise your children to be like him and be a role model to your children; be the pair of loving parents you never had.
Don't fall into the temptations of other men, because those other men will never be half as good as this man that you have.
Finally, the man who loves you more will never leave you thirsting for his attention, he will never make you feel like you have to earn his love. He will never make you compete for his love. He will never fall into the temptations of sin despite the suggestive strides and oscillating hips of those other women, simply because he is devoted and loyal to you.
This man will make you feel like you're the only woman in the world, and the most beautiful one as well. To him, you will never fall short of any other women.. To him, all he sees is how the entire universe sparkles in your eyes and how ravishing you look no matter how much time passes. He will be the one who loves you when you're no longer young and beautiful.
To him, you will always be enough.
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